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HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO

SAY ABOUT MEN :

If a man wants you,

nothing can keep him away. If he

doesn't want you, nothing can make

him stay. Stop making excuses for a

man and his behavior. Allow your

intuition (or spirit) to save you from

heartache. Stop trying to change

yourself for a relationship that's not

meant to be. Slower is better. Never

live your life for a man before you find

what makes you truly happy. If a

relationship ends because the man

was not treating you as you deserve

then heck no, you can't "be friends". A

friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't

settle. If you feel like he is stringing you

along, then he probably is Don't stay

because you think "it will get

better"You'll be mad at yourself a year

later for staying when things are not

better.The only person you can control

in a relationship is you. Avoid men

who've got a bunch of children by a

bunch of different women.He didn't

marry them when he got them

pregnant, why would he treat you any

differently? Always have your own set

of friends separate from his.Maintain

boundaries in how a guy treats you. If

something bothers you, speak

up.Never let a man know everything.*

He will use it against you later.You

cannot change a man's behavior.*

Change comes from within. Don't EVER

make him feel he is more important

than you are...Even if he has more

education or in a better job.Do not

make him into a quasi-god.He is a

man, nothing more nothing less.Never

let a man define who you are.Never

borrow someone else's man.If he

cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.A

man will only treat you the way you

ALLOW him to treat you. All men are

NOT dogs.You should not be the one

doing all the bending...Compromise is

two way street. You need time to heal

between relationships...There is

nothing cute about baggage...Deal with

your issues before pursuing a new

relationshipYou should never look for

someone to COMPLETE you...A

relationship consists of two WHOLE

individuals...Look for someone

complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn

out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you

sometimes...when a man always know

where you are, and you're always

readily available to him - he takes it for

granted Never move into his mother's

house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't

fully commit to a man who doesn't give

you everything that you need.*Keep

him in your radar but get to know

others. Scared of being alone is what

makes a lot of women stay in

relationships that are abusive or

hurtful: Dr. Phil says You should know

that: You're the best thing that could

ever happen to anyone and if a man

mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good

thing. If he was attracted to you in the

1st place, just know that he's not the

only one.They're all watching you, so

you have a lot of choices.Make the

right one. Ladies take care of your own

hearts...